Essential Oils For Spiritually Sensitive Children

My middle child, Rafe, age 7, is very empathic, meaning he is sensitive to and absorbs the energy within his environment — especially the energy created from the thoughts, words and emotions of other people. He becomes overwhelmed and emotional; angers quickly and cries easily. Trying to rationalize with him does not help, despite a calm voice and my best efforts.

Our best antidote has come from a tiny bottle of blended essential oils. It soothes Rafe’s moods and helps to even his temperament. I apply it to Rafe’s belly and back — dab it on and rub it in — once or twice per day.

I believe the essential oils help to create an energetic barrier around Rafe’s energy field (or aura) — the missing link which helps Rafe to feel more comfortable in his own skin. The essential oils help to protect him from the swirling energies that his young body and sensitive emotions are not yet equipped to manage.

The essential oil application works best if used prior to large amounts of energy exposure; for example, before school, before a friend’s birthday party or before a trip to the mall. Anywhere Rafe will be exposed to crowds of people (in physical form and in spiritual form).

Rafe is sensitive to spirit energy also. He provides vivid and accurate descriptions of archangels and earth spirit. He loves to share these with me because he knows that I, as a medium, see our spirit friends too; and we reassure each other that there’s nothing to be afraid of.

Rafe tends to see the most Spirit when he’s trying to fall asleep. For this reason, at times, we’ll apply the essential oils just before bedtime. While the essential oils will not protect Rafe from spirit communication exclusively, they do help to soothe his fears and reduce the overwhelm he once felt when confronted with spirit messaging (seeing and hearing his own spirit guides and sensing other forms of spirit in general).

Below is the recipe I use for making essential oil applications for my children. For Rafe, I purchased the “Little Angels” blend online from Floracopeia. It’s a blend of lavender, cedar, chamomile and vetiver essential oils.

1 oz. (2 tbsp.) fractionated coconut oil
6 drops of Little Angels

Little Angels can be found at

“In My Dreams I Was Told To Smoke And Salt The Bathrooms. I Took The Smoke For Saging. Any Idea What The Salt Means?”

“In my dreams I was told to smoke and salt the bathrooms. I took the smoke for saging. Any idea what the salt means?”
— Anonymous

“Yes, that makes sense; your dream guides are giving you good advice. Energy can accumulate in any room and feel heavy, stuck or stagnant — especially if you’re sensitive. In fact, spirits are drawn to bathrooms due to the running water; water is a conductor, and it can feed their energy.

“Sage or palo santo can be used for smudging. Sage is a dried herb; palo santo a sacred wood. Both can be burned — the smoke, combined with your intention or prayer, is effective at clearing energies. Palo santo has a lighter, sweeter scent if you are sensitive to smells (sage can smell a little like marijuana). Look on eBay or Etsy.

“Salt can be placed in a little bowl in a room for cleansing. Or you can sprinkle it in the corners of a room. Discard the salt after you feel it has had the desired effect. Alternatively, you can mix salt with water in a bottle and spray the room. Refer to the following website for more details:

“I generally recommend clearing your home once every six months. But I encourage you to be the barometer: If the energy feels thick in your home, or you notice the presence of new spirit energies, then it’s a sign to re-smudge your space.”
— Ellen

“OMG! Guides? Spirits? They Wouldn’t Let Me Sleep Last Night …”

“OMG! Guides? Spirits? They wouldn’t let me sleep last night. I heard a loud buzzing in my ear. Couldn’t understand what anyone was saying. Someone actually smacked me upside the head and yelled at me though. I heard my name loud and clear. Is this going to be typical? I feel like they’re being impatient with me. Very strange.”
— Anonymous

“Some things to keep in mind: What you are experiencing is normal during a ‘spiritual awakening’ — and while your spiritual or ‘psychic’ senses develop. An awakening is not necessarily easy, smooth or beautiful. Although the outcome will be. But remember nothing is perfect. And nobody is perfect.

“You must learn to work with your spirit guides. Write up some guidelines. Tell them you’d prefer it if they didn’t keep you up at night. Remember they are your peeps. They love you and want what’s best for you. Ask them to be more patient. In turn, try to be patient with them. The process. If they can’t speak to you in the middle of the night (wink), then when can they? Could you set up a time to meditate? And journal? So they know they can communicate with you during that time? That’s ultimately what they’re asking for.

“Believe me, my first awakening was the same way. It was a roller coaster. It will eventually settle down.

“Here’s where angels come into play. Ask the angels to help you have a smooth awakening. Open gradually to your spiritual gifts. Establish boundaries. Experience peace and happiness throughout the whole process.

“Finally, make sure you ask your spirit guides direct questions, like ‘What do you want?’ and ‘What are the next steps I should take?’ Then, make some solid requests, like ‘Please communicate with me in ways I can understand. Please give me time to digest all of this.’

“Your spirit messaging may feel a little ‘mixed up’ right now, as your spiritual gifts develop. Give it some time. Trust the process. Ask for clarity.”
— Ellen

“I Keep Getting Warm Rushes Of Energy Around My Left Ankle And Leg. What Is It?”

“So I’m interested in your opinion. I keep getting these warm rushes of energy around my left ankle on the outside of my leg. It’s been happening for like two weeks now. What do you think that is?”
— Anonymous

“I’d suggest reading ‘The Everything Guide To Angels’ by Karen Paolino, a book that explains the spiritual — or ‘psychic’ — senses, one of which is clairsentience.

“You are experiencing clairsentience — the warm rushes of energy around your ankle and leg — or communication through your psychic sense of feeling (similar to the physical sense of touch).

“Your angels and spirit guides are beginning to communicate with you. They will develop your clairsentience first; eventually, perhaps, moving on to develop your clairvoyance, clairaudience, claircognizance — or the psychic senses that work best for communications between you and your team in spirit.

“Psychic communication is available to everyone — though unique to everyone. Meaning, every person has different strengths. For example, I’ve always felt clairaudience and clairvoyance are my strongest spiritual senses.

“So, my friend, best for you to read up on the psychic senses. And communicate back! Let your guides know if you like it. If you like it, ask them to give you more. They will. So, you may feel a hand on your shoulder; or someone touch your hair. My favorite is the full-body hug: a shiver or full-body tingle that runs from the top of my head to my tippy-toes.

“Soon you’ll grow accustomed to it, and also have fun with it, which is ultimately the goal: developing your psychic senses, while at the same time developing a relationship with your spiritual team.

“Eventually, in time, and when you feel comfortable, you could begin asking them yes/no questions. Then decide what means ‘yes,’ and what means ‘no.’

1.) Head bobbing — My angels/guides like to nod my head for yes, and shake my head for no.
2.) The sway test — In a standing position, your body will sway forward for yes and backward for no.
3.) Pendulum method — Hold a crystal pendulum (or a special piece of jewelry, like your ring) on a chain, ask your question, and then see if it swings front-to-back for yes; side-to-side for no.

“The sway test is very handy in the grocery store. ‘Dearest angels and guides, what’s best for me to eat for dinner tonight: Turkey or beef?’ Then say, ‘Turkey,’ and feel a nudge forward, meaning yes; or say, ‘Beef,’ and feel a nudge back for no.

“You can ask them questions about anything! Little decisions to big moves — our angels and guides love it when we ask. The more you practice asking about little things, the easier it is to trust when it comes to the big things, you know?

“Always remember to say thank you, as the information is gifted to them — from God, Creator or Universe — and then passed on to us.

“Finally, before you attempt any spirit communication, please invoke the protection of the Divine by asking your angels and spirit guides to surround you with a bubble of God’s divine white light of protection.”
— Ellen

“We Are Just Like You In Every Way”

“For days, now, you’ve known something is wrong. You feel immobilized. It even hurts at times. Honest to goodness truth is, we feel this way too. You are feeling our emotions. They are strong, aren’t they? Surprisingly so.

“We have been sharing them with you for a purpose. They motivate all of us. We do not punish you as such; they serve a need. We need you to realize what we truly are; if you take away the body, only the Spirit is exposed. We are just like you in every way.

“Adversely, when you feel as though you are on cloud nine, as you’ve called it — the higher vibratory state you’ve been trying to figure out — that’s ours as well. Our emotions fluctuate too. Highs and lows. They ebb and flow with the days, weeks, the centuries. That’s not to say we are down or sad most of the time. But, at certain times, as with everyone, our true emotions shine through.

“Eventually, Ellen, the truth will come out. We cannot deny this any longer. You may share as you wish. Someday, yes, we would like to explore this topic further with you (and others).”

— Archangel Gabriel el al

Channeled through Ellen on 5-19-14

“I Have A Bad Feeling About My Friend. Should I Tell Her?”

“I got a message last night about my friend, and it wasn’t good. I had a feeling that there would be a car accident. Was I dreaming or do I need to tell her?”
— Anonymous

“Ask your angels and guides for validation. And also ask them to show you signs if you’re supposed to share the message with your friend. I receive a lot of prophetic information. Sometimes it’s for me to share; sometimes it’s simply for me to know (and, perhaps, say a prayer). Ultimately you decide whether to share or not. Another thing to keep in mind: Sometimes prophetic information does come to fruition. Yet other times, the energy shifts, or the circumstances change, and it doesn’t pan out. That’s why you need to ask your angels and guides for assistance with receiving and potentially delivering prophetic info. Remember that prophetic information is a gift — encouraging us to ‘be aware.’ Not ‘beware.’ But to be more aware. And to enjoy greater awareness.”
— Ellen

“All Things Lie In God’s Hands”

“I, for one, know how you feel about all of this mystical stuff — some of it seems so unexplainable, or difficult to understand. The why; the how. Could we just try this? I would like to be understood, but perhaps in different terms. Meaning, I just see it this way. And that’s just how I do, difficult as it may be to accept. And that’s the why and the how of it. It’s me, and I decide — although other things certainly weigh in, as we’d discussed in the previous post. Condemnation occurs, then, when we try to over-explain — to find all the self-gratifying answers to the why and the how. Try to love and honor yourself — and me — enough to, perhaps, accept that all things, no matter how large or how small, lie in God’s hands. Rest assured, I am taking good care of you.”

Love, Mother/Father God

Channeled through Ellen on 6-15-14

“Why Things Happen The Way They Do”

“I love you dearly. As much as my heart can hold, that’s how much I love you. That okay with you? I do not wish harm upon you. I do, however, have the ability to see it coming your way. Not saying I don’t have a say in things. Just saying I don’t intentionally harm people. Or their things. Or their pets. Or the people who they love. I do not harm others. Sometimes, however, circumstances prevail, and harm comes about. This may sound somewhat misleading — but in terms of cause and effect — I do have a say in how situations turn out. I could alter either the cause or the effect. Sometimes I do, and sometimes I don’t. Up to — all of us, actually. See, we all have a say in how things will turn out. Some things are predestined. Or preordained. Meaning, I’ve hatched a plan with somebody’s soul prior to incarnation, and I go through with the plan, thereby honoring the person’s preset intentions. Other times, I improvise along the way, making ‘adjustments’ as needed. And, finally, other times, well you know — life happens. Things shift. And I simply allow life to happen. That’s the general formula for why things happen the way they do. Not too different from what you had determined on your own, eh?”

With love and a wink, Mother/Father God

Channeled through Ellen on 6-13-14